If you want to become more
successful as an entrepreneur or in your career, you can start by making a
habit of talking and thinking more like the people you know or read about who
are already successful.
Here are some phrases you’ll never
hear a successful person say:
1.
"We can't do that."
One thing that makes people and
companies successful is the ability to make solving their customers’ problems
and demands their main priority. If a need arises repeatedly, the most
successful people learn how to solve it as quickly as they can.
2.
"I don't know how."
Instead of automatically shutting
down solution-finding, successful people learn what they can in order to
succeed in a project or in their career. For example, you would never see a
truly successful international business consultant who travels to Italy
multiple times per year refusing to learn Italian.
3.
"I don’t know what that is."
Pleading ignorance doesn’t make the
problem go away. It just makes the asker find someone who is able to work with
them to solve the problem. While’s it’s always good to be honest with those you
interact with, finishing this phrase with “but I’ll find out” is a surefire way
to become more successful.
4.
"I did everything on my own."
The best people know to surround
themselves with others who are smart, savvy and as dedicated as they are. What
makes this work is always giving credit where it’s due, as due credit to you
will always come back in hand. Recognize those that have helped you or made an
impact and you’ll continue to earn success and recognition yourself.
5.
"That's too early."
You would never hear Benjamin
Franklin or someone such as Steve Jobs say, “that is too early for me to be
there.” If there is a networking meeting, project launch or interview
opportunity at the very beginning of the day, the most successful people do
what it takes to be there. Part of being successful is being at the right place
at the right time, no matter if you’re a morning bird or night owl.
6.
"That’s too late."
Along the same lines, if you’re
asked to a 9 p.m. dinner by a potential business partner, and you can make it,
definitely go. You may be tired the next day, but the connections you will make
during a small dinner or after-hours meeting can make all the difference when
it comes to your career or next project.
7.
"It's too bad we couldn't work together."
Truly hitting it off with someone
can be a rare occurrence, but if you truly connect with someone and want to
work with them, find a way to make it work. Finding people that you really
enjoy communicating with don’t come along too often, so whether it’s a case
study or a new business, successful people know that working with those who
truly align with your personality and interests are the path to true success.
8.
"Let's catch up sometime."
Many times, this phrase is said as
filler, without any true follow up. Successful people know that if they really
want to catch up with someone, they follow up to make it happen. This also
builds on the idea that the most successful people have worked hard to build
genuine connections and relationships within their network, without any hidden
agenda.Nurturing your network means being thoughtful of others, while keeping
your relationships with them on top of your mind.
9.
"I'm sorry, I'm too busy."
If an opportunity comes their way,
successful people do what it takes to make it happen. Sure, this might mean
longer hours occasionally, but if you want something to work, that is what it
takes. After all, according to Lao-Tzu: "Time is a created thing. To say
‘I don’t have time,’ is like saying, ‘I don’t want to.’”
10.
"That was all my idea."
Again, as mentioned in number four,
the most successful people spread the wealth when it comes to doling out praise
from a successful project. No idea is truly one’s own -- it’s a sum of their
experiences from interacting and building off of collaborative ideas with a
team. Doling out praise and encouragement is a crucial part of building a
successful company and culture.
11.
"I never read books."
Tom Corley of Rich Habits found that
rich people read (and listen to) books at a much higher rate than poor people:
“63 percent of wealthy parents make their children read two or more non-fiction
books a month vs. 3 percent of poor.” Also, “63 percent of wealthy listen to
audio books during commute to work vs. 5 percent of poor people.”Reading
non-fiction as well as fiction can help reduce stress, enhance creativity and
boost your memory.
12.
"I'm not good enough."
Part of being successful is having a
high sense of self-worth. Being yourself is one trait that promises success in
business and your personal life. Follow your true interests. What you would do
in your life if you didn’t need money?
13.
"It's OK." (over and over)
Successful people know when to walk
away and stop taking excuses from others. If there is a bottleneck and
something (or someone) is preventing you from completing a project on time,
build up your business, or move you forward in your goals, then it’s time to
set boundaries and decide to limit your involvement.
14.
"If our competitors don't have it, then we don't need it."
Copying competitors is one of the
many possible deaths for most companies. True innovation comes from the flip
side: figuring out what competitors aren’t doing and fill that niche to
answer a need in the industry.
15.
"Time off is for suckers."
True success should be seen as a
well-rounded approach, one with vacations, weekends with friends and family and
hours of downtime on the weekdays. While workload varies for everyone at times,
taking vacation can make you better at your job.
Sometimes to get to where you want
to be, the best and easiest thing to do is to simply follow the examples that
others set for you.
What phrases are you going to
eliminate from your day-to-day conversations and thinking?
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